It's been a while since I've done a new posting so I'm long overdue. Quite a few female friends of mine complain about women cheating and want to know why. I got a theory about this. Let me state before I got on that I've never been in a relationship before and I'm basing this idea from other men and biology.
Throughout the history of man, men has the responsibility to populate the planet. Us population control make us the dominate species on the planet. So men, in essence, want to.....well, fuck. Men like to have sex, it's who we are. Some more than other, but in all of us, men just want to have sex. Women, on the other hand, don't want to have sex, or at least not at the level as men. Women are the caregiver of the kids that men help bring into this world. Sick and wrong, yes but it's the way of the world. The irony is that women get praised for doing this while men get chastised for doing what is in out nature.
Keeping that in mind, men don't view sex the way women do. Women, in general, have a harder time separation love and sex where as men can. Men can have sex with women just for sex more than women can. Is it wrong, that kind of depends on which viewpoint you're looking at. If you offer a man sex with a beautiful women, he'll have a hard time saying no while women can say no at a drop of a hot if offered sex with a handsome man. Then again, women have been offered sex since their teen years and have an easier time to say no. Because of this, when a woman offers sex with a man, he's is going to look at the situation from a different viewpoint than a woman would, even if he's in a relationship. Men are just seeing sex while women see a new love interest. It's not at swipe on the women, men just want to have sex with the other woman. It's not because the she's younger or prettier or thinner or bustier, it's because she's new. She's different, she's a new person.
So at the end of all this, I'm starting to think this notion of a relationship is something women created. Woman force men out of their nature and conformed to their rules. It's kind of not fair to do that to men. When we do good, women get the credit, when we do bad, it's our fault. Men get neutered into this idea and are force into this or be lonely (unless you're rich, powerful, or handsome) Maybe, just an idea, let your man sway a little in the sex part. Allow him an outside fling like once a year just to get it out of his system. It's not cheating, it's biology in action.
On the flip side of things, if you are in a relationship, both side have made a decision that both members of the paring are to be faithful to each other no matter what, sort of like a contact. If one person breaks the agreement once, you can make adjustments. If it continues, the verbal contact is broken and can be terminated. Of course that all depends on what you decided the limit are. If you're cool with "They can be with someone once in a blue moon" then you're good. If it's "No one but me" and both agree with it, then both side must abide by the rules set up.
Then again, what do I know. I'm just a moron, and I am single.
